I have spent a lot of time trying to build an actual ongoing conversation with AI.

Not just a tool that remembers random facts about me, but something that can understand the context behind what I am saying without making me repeat my life every day.

The frustrating part is that the information can be there and still not get used.

I am not looking for fake empathy or generic advice. I am looking for continuity.

There has to be a better way to make these systems actually use the history they are given instead of treating every message like it exists by itself.